Condolences
Dear Simon and David and family,
We are so sorry that your Dad has died. I worked with him when he started his career at the YWCA of Calgary - working with immigrant professionals. He brought many years of experience in the corporate sector to this job but he did have to learn how to facilitate groups of adults in a classroom. He approached this task with curiosity, enthusiasm and humility. With his extensive reading on communicating across cultures and adult facilitation, he became a reckoning force in the classroom! The participants loved him and regularly sought him out for advice.
On a more personal level, over time I got to know your Dad and I learned about your families and your Dad's commitment to them. I remember, even as I interviewed him for the job, he said if he was hired, he would need time off when his first grandchild was born. He got the job and the time off! I admired him for his ability to maintain a balance between his job and his family.
Once we both retired, we met regularly for meals at his favourite Thai restaurant and walks in Fish Creek. I have many fond memories of Hans as a keen co-worker and a valued friend. Please accept our sincere sympathies.
Sincerely,
Carol and Allan Rix
It was the summer of 1967 and I was going to Camp Ahmek to become a Counsellor In Training. I found myself in the Voyager Section of Camp and was assigned Hans as my counselor for a ten day canoe trip with his six campers. It was going to be the first time for me as a counselor training and I think for Hans as well as a counselor. I was 16 and he 19. I think the sectional director put us together because we had similar personalities. We would be responsible for taking these kids for 10 days in the Park. Well I will never experience in my life the adventure that we had. White water canoeing. Cooking. Setting up tents. Canoeing and setting up camp in the rain. Tipping canoes. Being bitten by mosquitos and horseflies. Nearly chopping off our feet. I slept beside Hans for every night of trip and we would talk all night about our lives. I can still hear him laugh and get cross. He taught me how to deal with my neck pain using his rola bola method. I learned all about his native country and he learned from me what it was like growing up in Etobicoke. We even did some trucking on the trip whereby we would put the kids and our canoes on a truck and sometimes a train. Highly inappropriate but we did it. Once we just about got run over by a train trying to stop it. Never forget the look in Han's face.. We really had the time of our lives. When the August kids came in for the month Hans came over to me and asked me if I would joining him on trip for another ten days. I of course agreed and we had another fantastic time together laughing and crying. I will always remember Hans. I can see him know in his T- shirt ,Kaki shorts with white socks and boots with a big smile with his blond hair which was starting to recede. Come on Bill we can make it to the next camp site. You can do it. We did and boy did we have fun.. You were quite a guy Hans! .Your old CIT ,Bill Laidlaw, CIT 67 Chicken Man
We are very sorry to hear of Hans' passing. We have many wonderful memories of times spent together including spending time at the cottage in Quebec, vacationing together, playing cards, having camp fires with sing alongs and numerous other activities. We will hold these memories in our hearts. Our condolences to all of you..
With love,
Joan & Gary Lapstra
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